Monday, January 31, 2011

READ Different?

So today I read to so VASTLY different views on "publishing" books that I began thinking about what has changed for me in terms of publishing and reading. I wondered if my own needs, as a CONSUMER had changed. In fact, I know they have.

I started the day reading my Domino Project newsletter from Seth Godin. I am a huge Godin fan and rarely feel his commentary is far off the mark. He is a writer. He is a publisher. More importantly he is passionate about getting his messages into his customers hands. And now he has partnered with Amazon, who like it or hate it, has had a huge impact on our world of books and reading. Today he commented on pricing. Along the way he made some interesting about books and how as consumers, we have always had to bend to the "will" of publishers. Very satisfying quick read.

Finished my daily mandatory reading and went on the big newspaper headline perusing. And, aha, another article on publishing in the New York Times opinion pages. As I read through the article, Read On, I was astounded at the contrast in CONSUMER perspective of the industry in the NYT commentary to the Godin view. In this case, the CONSUMER is the reader. Sure, the article does point out that the industry has done much better than the recording industry at managing the move to "e-", but not sure the additional patting on the back is warranted. Let's admit it, another industry would be hard pressed to fail as big as recording companies did.  This tone from NYT should probably be no surprise. It comes from a media giant who publishes a Bestseller list for the very objects that are produced from this industry. [Interested in how The New York Times Bestsellers REALLY are or are not determined? Read this...] I am dissapointed that I read the whole article on how much better the the industry is doing, and yet the writer shared no opinion on why it exists in the first place? Instead we get this:
The resilience of the book business may be because of demographics. Like jazz, which is less prone to illicit downloads than hip-hop, books cater to older, less Internet-savvy customers. Publishers also avoided the recording industry’s mistake of wasting precious time suing customers and have rightly focused on promoting cheap and easy ways for them to download books legally.
So publishing is working because my mom buys books? Because she can't figure out how get the free versions of bitTorrent I guess! And then there was this:
Some argue that the short texts usually found on the Internet are changing readers’ habits, perhaps reducing our attention spans.
I read Ken Follet books and I am pretty sure that it's required attention span of 120 hours is a bit excessive. Why are full size novels more popular than short stories? You can never just buy a single short story either. Remember Stephen King's foray into the small, bite-size, publishing world? Everyone loved it. Of course, it was a return to the "serial" style. I agree that blogs, news readers, and other internet tools have faciliated readers in quickly covering many topics with a short amount of detail. But most of this reading is non-fiction. SO the observation might only apply to readers who read a larger % of non-fiction as oppossed to fiction-generally readers.  Al this makes me wonder if the experts at The Times includes anyone who has actually been buying and consuming books in the last 14 years.

Do we read different then we used to? As a CONSUMER, have I changed? I have been a user and fan of Amazon's recommendations for a very long time. I placed my first Amazon order in 1997 (bought The Grotesque by Patrick McGrath) . I have rated 889 books. Was poignant to see Brown Bear, Brown Bear marked with 5 stars in 2002. Year Natalie was born. Cancer Vixen in 2003. (Love you Julie!) Did I really read all of those Jean M. Auel books? And yes, I did give Middlesex a single star. First book that as an adult I did not finish. But what really strikes is how many of these books would NOT have been books that I would have bought at a traditional bookstore. Joyce Carol Oates? No way. Loved Carl Hiaasen, but had never heard of James Lee Burke. Had a rule about reading Oprah's Book Club (I didn't, it was the principle), but finally read She's Come Undone after it stayed at my number one recommendation for three book orders. Turned out it was one of my top 5 books. So Amazon expanded my base of books, though I may or may not have read more. Browsing recommendations versus browsing by the covers seems like a way to improve the overall quality of my reading. And it did. I tried new things (Naked by David Sedaris in 2000) and while not all were hits (didn't I mention Middlesex?) I certainly changed from my mostly Science Fiction genre to a broader swatch of literature. I get that I probably would have changed my reading materials without Amazon, I mean how many times can you read The Hobbit after you turn 30? But Amazon pushed me a bit out of my comfort zone. For that I am appreciative. [On a side note, it was weird to see that I only placed two order with Amazon in 2003. A new vacuum and Middlesex. I'm just sayin'...]

I was not ready to go to eBooks. Tom had one way before I did. I didn't like the idea of giving up the tactile experience of reading. I've always associated good book reads with the experience in which it was born. Reading The Reader by Bernhard Schlink in a Florida hotel room waiting on Y2k to hit? Contextual. Imagining Argentina by Lawrence Thornton on a deployment visit to Argentina? Realistic. The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell read in little snippets during "lunch at the desk" years at CareSource? Life changing.

But, I took the plunge. And I am amazed at how quickly I adapted. I love that all my favorite books can be with me (note this is only the case since the Kindle was upgraded to allow folders). I can mark up and highlight to my hear's content. And the convenience of using the device for reading technical text files for computers and photography subjects is fabulous. I now can read 3-4 books at the same time. I used to max out at 2. But since they are with me, I can switch from my only-when-I-have-10-minutes book to my read-each-night-until-I-fall-asleep book. And that topic-for-which-I-should-have-paid-more-attention-to-in-high-school-government-class can be easily traded for the wish-i-remembered-if-I-liked-it-the-first-time book. And it's still as tactile as it used to be. I don't use a kindle cover except when I pack it in a bag. So my reading in bed experience is still the same really.

I am positive that I am reading more than I used to. And yes, some is short, which is great when my attention span will be short such as when I have 10 minutes until the microwave timer goes off. But I just re-read Watership Down by Richard Adams in about 10 little sessions. I think I was able to discern the main points regarding teamwork and leadership. In fact, it kept my frustration of reading about yet another bunch of males who don't recognize their need for females until it is too late. Ah, but I digress...

eBooks are here to stay. But what will it mean to the publishing world? What value does a publisher add to the acquisition process? Can they assist me in finding new and interesting things to read, or can they only direct me to the books they want me to read because THEY determined they were good books (again, Middlesex????)? I have a friend who is a fabulous writer (you know who you are!) and it would be great if she could easily be published. I am sure she aspires to have a NYT #1, but wouldn't it be even better to publish a book quickly and cheaply so that it can be priced and sized for us to try it? Then, when we love it, we can move on to her tomes!

Whatever happens I know that I continue to be a book lover. And I love that my daughter is a book lover. So here is to books:
There is no Frigate like a Book
To take us Lands away
Nor any Coursers like a Page
Of prancing Poetry --
This Traverse may the poorest take
Without oppress of Toll --
How frugal is the Chariot
That bears the Human soul.   ---Emily Dickinson


Sunday, January 30, 2011

Book Recommendation: A Strange Stirring by Stephanie Coontz

Just started reading A Strange Stirring:  The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960s. This is a fabulous book! I have to admit though, I have never read the Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan. The Strange Stirring is a biography of that book. 

I am also currently reading The Hangman's Daughter by Oliver Pötzsch which is also a fabulous. However, most of the book is about how poorly human beings treated other human beings. And mostly it is about how men used accusations of "witchcraft" to oppress and abuse women.  Plus, I have been known to curse at the TV when watching Mad Men and either seeing how men treat women or how women thought of themselves. My friends and I have had some interesting conversations on Feminism and what that actually means to my generation. I like to remind Natalie that women have only been able to vote in the United States since 1920. I am not sure she actually believes me.

Would be interested to hear from those of you who lived through this have different thoughts or if you share her observations. 

Friday, January 28, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 95

This is our last day of school before Chinese New Year. Ayi decorated the house yesterday with new stuff. Of course every thing related to CNY is symbolic so we chatted about the characters on the decorations and the meaning for about 30 minutes!  Too much info for a Daily Picture, maybe a blog later today...
"新年快乐 (Xīnnián kuàilè)"

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 94

Today was our first attempt at doing some "light painting". The shot is taken in a low light place, in this the guest bathroom, and then use a light (it was a flashlight) to "paint" the light. Basically you never see me in the picture even though I was behind Natalie. You can see a faint ghost of me on the left. [As a side note, this concept totally freaks the Ayi out.] My attempt at adding a light smile to her didn't turn out the way I thought. Unfortunately we ran out of time to keep trying to get it perfect. But is fun and we'll try some more in the future!
"How long do I have to stand still? Two minutes is a long time Mom!"

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 93

Sorry to anyone subscribing to the blog that received 9 updates this morning instead of 1. Turns out I missed numbering the title on a day and so all of my entries were off by a day. And since I am OCD, had to fix.
"The recent growth spurt left Natalie needing a new ruler to measure her height"

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 92

Better attitude today, but not much creativity!
"Why can I never find a pencil when I need one?"

Monday, January 24, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 91

Our aspiration is to "keep it real", so this was the real shot from my "don't feel good don't want to go to school" girl this morning! (Note the purposeful lack of eye contact!)
"Don't want to go..."

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 89

It snowed all day yesterday and is starting to spit some snow today. Luckily it is only sticking to the trees and tops of buildings. Unfortunately not enough to justify a whole picture! Today's metaphor was the first one Natalie come up with on her own.
"I am having a ball this winter with all the snow!"

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 88

Aerin, our neighbor and Nat's friend, stayed over last night. Turns out while I was struggling with our hot water heater, they had no heat in their house! So, the kids all took baths at the Crews (hot water cold room) and then slept here (cold water hot room). Though as it turns out my hot water stayed on all night.
"Weekday sleepovers result in pillow fights after breakfast"

Monday, January 17, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 87

This was her real quote after explaining the metaphor today. Oh, and got my camera back! Yeah!!!
"Mom, since I am the Apple of Your Eye, why can't I take two puddings for snack?"

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Hot Water and DVD Players

I believe that I can boil down 90% of the frustrations I have had in China IN FOUR YEARS to HOT WATER and DVD PLAYERS. We are on our 4th DVD Player and 2nd Water Heater, waiting to see if we need a 3rd Water Heater. For those of you not in the know (i.e. had to listen to me complain about this already), this past week our brand new water heater (replaced in October) is not working. Allow me to recap...


Started Tuesday night around 9 p.m. when Tom went to finish washing some dishes he had started earlier (I know, that is awesome isn't it?). Ran the hot water, but alas, only cold water! He went out with the flashlight and had to relight the pilot. He thought it might have just been windy.  


On Wednesday morning, Tom had to relight at 6:00 a.m. and then wait 30 minutes for lukewarm water. After he showered and before he left for work he checked the hot water again and it was out. So he relight again and told me to hustle into the shower while the water was still warm. I took a pretty cold shower that day. Taking cold or lukewarm showers is an art that our family has had to perfect during previous episodes of the NO HOT WATER FOR SEVERAL DAYS show that seems to be broadcast several times a year in our home. Wednesday, we had the Vizcaya Management Office (they have responsibility for repair) come 4 times. And early afternoon I totally lost my cool...


Now allow me to digress to explain to anyone who does not live here nor has visited that ANY TYPE OF PLUMBING PROBLEM is cause for major concern. There is so little REAL experience with it that you rarely have a repairman that has ever even SEEN a hot water heater let alone fixed one. Combine that lack of experience with a cultural quirk that requires a Chinese repairman to assume the tenant caused the problem with magical powers and you can be assured that these types of repairs will take days if NOT weeks to  get resolved.


The first trip the Vizcaya repairman made on Wednesday morning at 11:00 a.m. resulted in him relighting and telling me/Ayi that it was the wind blowing the pilot out. (Note that we have a new water heater and it has a wooden shed around it and a small wooden "cover" that sits in front of the pilot to prevent wind from blowing it out). He also told us that the temperature on the heater was too low and insisted that whoever had lit the pilot must have moved it (his attempt to accuse the tenant of using magical powers to screw something up!) Whatever. I checked the pilot every 30 minutes and it was out by 12:00 p.m. I called him back. We (had to use Ayi to translate as I was quickly running out of Mandarin) told him the problem was NOT wind and he needed to call a REAL repairman. He started insisting it was the wind. He lit it and left. Dammit.  1:30 p.m.  the pilot was out AGAIN.  Ayi called the Management and told them we did NOT want a Vizcaya repairman, we wanted them to call a REAL repairman. They hung up on her. Vizcaya repairman came at 1:50 pm. This time I stood outside and Ayi and I argued with him. He actually opened the shed and was showing me how the wind magically wrapped around these little gaps in the shed wall and the pilot cover and was blowing the pilot out. His suggestion was that we hire someone to come build a better cover to keep the wind out. 


It was at this point that my anger, typically kept in check due to the hilarity of the situation, rose up and grabbed a hold of my brain. I started yelling English obscenities at him. I kept asking him WHY the wind was blowing it out when it WASN'T EVEN WINDY! And WHY we wouldn't just call a REAL REPAIRMEN (I actually asked for a NOT FAKE repairman as I could not remember the word for real in Mandarin). I took the silly piece of cardboard he was trying to wrap around the pilot cover and tossed it on the steps. During my rant, he refused to make eye contact and just kept talking over me like I was not speaking. In reality, I think I was freaking him out. At some point, I think I realized that there was NOTHING I could say to get this repairman to do what I was saying. I felt my anger flow into my arms and I actually considered, no fantasized about pushing him down the step he was standing on. I actually raised my arms, hands in tight fists, and leaned slightly forward to get a better angle to ensure my shove would have enough energy behind it. I now understand the metaphor "seeing red". Luckily it quickly dissipated as I realized that a repairman with a broken arm or leg would just be another delay in convincing someone that we had a problem that required a REAL repairman. I threw out one more obscenity ( good one IN MANDARIN. ) and left the scene. I grabbed my backpack and started WALKING to Concordia where in 45 minutes I would discuss with our Brownie Troop how "empowered girls can change the world". Sigh...


I had asked the Ayi to check the hot water that day at 4:30 and have them come again and relight if it was out. I was not going to be home until after 7:00 p.m. Tom also had a dinner event that night. I was pretty sure there was going to be no hot water and no resolution when I got back, but you never know! When I returned that night, I checked and no hot water. Figures. Went out and opened the shed. What I saw inside made me wish I had gone ahead with a little shove earlier in the day as it might have prevented what I discovered. There was now a weird make-shift "wind cover" in the form of three big pieces of cardboard surrounding a piece of foam that was wrapped around not just the pilot, but the whole bottom of the hot water heater! Thank God the heater was not working or our whole house might have BURNED DOWN!!!


I called Tom at his dinner and told him that someone with him that night, who spoke good Mandarin, should call the Vizcaya Management Office and INSIST that someone come.  Tom told me to cool down he would take care of it when he got home. I stayed up late that night watching Season 5 of Dexter. Not sure why it is that watching such violent drama helps make my own drama less significant. Though I did jot down a few notes for future reference. (Of course that is a joke)


Thursday morning was a beautiful day. No hot water, but at this point we are all experts in quick, cool showers. Tom lit the pilot at 6:00 am, took his shower at 6:40. I jumped in at 7. Not hot, but warm enough my that my shower took 7 minutes. Thursday we got the Landlord involved. And though she was working to get a real repairman, the Vizcaya repairman came back anyway. I REFUSED to talk to the repairman. He only came once. He relit and then decided to stand and watch the light. He was going to PROVE that the WIND was doing it. He left after 10 minutes. 10 minutes after he left, the pilot was out. Tom had started to do his own research and talked to his dad, who was a propane gas man all his life and knows a thing or two about hot water heaters. Tom formulated a theory on what needed to be done and took the heater apart when he got home. Nothing seemed obvious. He put back together, but oops, it appears that the now the pilot won't relight. Tom did a bit more research and felt it was some copper tube thing that needed to be replaced (note that this blog entry is NOT about the technical problem and solution. It is just about me venting. Please read Tom's FaceBook entries if you desire the scoop on the actual problem!) In the meantime, the landlord had arranged for a more "expert" repairman to come that night at 7:00 p.m. to assess. No idea if he was from Vizcaya or not. He and Tom both agreed on the part that needed to be replaced. Alas, he did have one and wasn't sure if he could get one before Monday. Went to be early knowing that Friday morning and perhaps the weekend was going to be a pain.


Friday morning. No Hot water. Tom went to clubhouse and took a shower in the locker room. Natalie headed to school with no shower, but it was Wacky Day. I heated up water on the stove and took what we had started calling "Little House on the Prairie" bath. Practically scalded myself working out the logistics of using the boiling water. Tom decided to do the repair himself. So he sourced the part he needed at some teeny place in Puxi and sent the driver to pick up what should have been a $5 part. Turned out it was $50! He left work early and brought the part home. Took apart the heater and put the new part in. YEAH! IT WORKED! TOM FIXED IT! It lit right up and started heating. I was so happy when I got home to find hot water available. My plan was to take a LONG bath and drink a nice glass of wine. Tom had his annual dinner Friday night, so he went up to get changed. Right before he left, he thought he would check to make sure everything seemed alright. Alas, the heater was off. Poor Tom. 


So here we sit, Saturday morning,4th day on the Prairie, no hot water. The landlord is trying to make arrangements to get someone here to fix it before Monday, but I have no confidence that will happen. I am debating between heading up to clubhouse or doing the "Little House" bath. Tom didn't come to bed until late so he won't be worrying about showering anytime soon. But as I sit here, I am thinking that Natalie might not have had a bath since... Well.... Since Tuesday night?


Last night was Pizza and Movie night. When we put in Season 1 of Happy Days (Natalie loves it), the DVD player started, but acted funky once in awhile. But we got through it. Sent Natalie to bed. Kiss Kiss. Another glass of wine. Back down to watch another DVD. ERROR? Watched Mad Men on the PC upstairs. Looks like we need to buy our 5th DVD Player today.

Friday, January 14, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 86

So happy she is participating this year! I don't remember reading in any Dr. Sears book or article that "Wacky Day" participation will be achieved on or about year 8!
"WACKY DAY!"

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 83

For those if you whose homes are not inundated with American Girl stuff, the story Mao is reading this morning is Rebecca Rubin's, Russian immigrant.
"Chairman Mao, I heard Rebecca's family lived for a short time in the Jewish Settlement in Shanghai before immigrating to the U.S. What was your view on that?"

Monday, January 10, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 82

Cinnamon made an appearance this morning...
"Hope she doesn't think my bandaged finger is a carrot!"

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Tell Us What We Need to Know or FIND IT YOURSELF

Was reading some of my favorite blogs and ran across a link to a slidesshow from the Florida State Attorney's Office regarding the Foreclosure rate in Florida. For many of you who are inundated with news regarding National politics (please don't publish any more Boehner crying stories), you may ask yourself why the media determines to focus on Obabma's or Congress's inability to solve the Financial Crisis instead of communicating the REAL reasons behind Florida having the 2nd highest foreclosure rate in the Nation. Is this a political issue? I think not. It is a corruption issue that stems from greed. Interested in what other think the solution is for this ongoing issue. How can we ensure that your average Joe living in Tampa is aware that Linda Green might be more responsible for their real estate issues? Local broadcast news? Maybe. National broadcast news? Unlikely unless someone blames Congress or Obama (as of right now Huff Post and Fox haven't done that, but it is early!). Google? Only if you search for "Florida Real Estate Fraud" and you don't know it is fraud! Alas, I think we are left with few channels to ensure the message is told. I mean really, how many of read this potentially "viral" slideshow and understand more than a smattering of the jargon? Be honest. So Average Joe stands little change of getting it.

As usual, my point is to GET INVOLVED LOCALLY in your goverment. If your county is reporting financial issues, FIND OUT WHY. Do it on your own. Don't expect the media to do it for you!!

Friday, January 7, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 81

We have guests for the next few days. Jack and Aerin Crew are staying with the Bramer's while their parents are in Hong Kong. Great fun for us to have Natalie's best friend and brother staying with us.
"Female Power, Male ascendancy"

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 80

We made a deal with Natalie earlier this year: if she did good in school, finished homework, and was responsible for home chores, we would CONSIDER getting her hamster as a pet. I say "we" though in reality Tom was not really on board with this idea. But, she has met her goals and Santa confirmed at Christmas that she in fact has earned her hamster ownership opportunity. In fact, she wrote up a contract that she, Tom, and I had to sign that included the details associated with the procurement and care of this hamster. Anyway, this weekend we are buying the thing and so she got a book on mice and rats (she swears hamster care is the same!) and has been busy reading and preparing to be a hamster owner. So this morning, she was too busy studying the book to be bothered with a metaphor picture!
"If you interrupt my hamster research again, I will Karate chop you!"

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 79

I am sooooooo missing my Nikon! The Shutter mechanism has worn out and needs to be replaced which will take 3 weeks! So I am stuck with the Sony Point and shoot. Don't get me wrong, the camera is OK. But very difficult to take an action shot when you can't totally control the aperture and speed!!! My hobby has made me a camera bigot I am afraid....
"This Hitting the Books is a great idea! Already knocked off P.E., Geography, Cooking, and History this morning!"

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Daily Picture Project - Day 78

Finally back to school!
"I think I understand Mom's new motivational technique, but a Donut on a Stick seems like a better idea than a Carrot on a Stick!