Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Chinese Haircut
Monday, March 26, 2007
First Day with Ayi
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Bad day…got beat up by a 13 year old
Actually what prompted me to do so was that my toenails need cut. During a foot massage some places trim the toenails as part of the service.
There is a new – credible – massage joint that opened up just down the road from us. The prices seemed pretty good for this area. Their prices beat the clubhouse spa here at Vizcaya.
I stopped by the massage joint today. I locked my bicycle to the light pole and walked in. The lady at the desk spoke decent English and I informed her that I wanted a foot massage. She led me to a foot locker. I took off my shoes and socks and placed on a pair of sandals. I followed her into this little room. Now –this is where the communication started to break down. She left and then she came back in. She asked me if I wanted a boy or a girl. I said it didn’t matter to me. Actually she had no idea what I said – that must be the border of decent English. Then she said the boy was blind. Blind massage therapists are the best so I knew he would be the best but I thought I didn’t want a blind guy cutting my toenails with sharp instruments. As a result, I replied that I wanted the girl.
Next they brought me in hot tea and some sort of soup. I didn’t eat the soup because I thought what if it wasn’t soup and it was something I was supposed to soak my fingers in.
The girl (massage therapist) came in next. Her English was very limited. She looked to be in Junior High School. She was very cute but that is where the attraction stopped because for the next 60 minutes she kicked the crap out of me.
There were funny things that happened. She first came in with a pail of hot water with weeds, peppers, and junk floating in it. I started to soak my feet in it. She then asked me something or told me something. I didn’t understand her. We both looked lost and she left the room. She came back in – turned on the music (which was the soundtrack to the Titanic). She started to give me an upper back, neck, and head massage. After a few minutes of that I figured out she was trying to ask me to take my shirt off earlier. Since I didn’t remove my shirt she did the massage over my shirt. Despite that she found every sore muscle that I had. While getting my head massaged I realized something funny. Since she didn’t understand me, what if she acted out what she wanted me to do. I laughed to myself because what if she started to unbutton her top to demonstrate what she wanted me to do? What if she started to unbutton my shirt to demonstrate what I wanted to do? I probably would have thought that the massage was turning into the VIP treatment or something.
Well the foot massage was great. I guarantee you that she removed some blood and scar tissue that have been inside my feet since my high school football days. She hit this one spot on my Achilles that was tender. Immediately a thought of an old injury came into my head. It was the exact same spot that I had a deep tissue injury in 1982. Twenty-five years later and long forgotten, it resurfaced – very odd.
Well the entire thing took 60 minutes. I received a head massage, neck massage, shoulder massage, and a foot massage, a cup of tea, and a bowl of soup. It cost me 45 RMB which is equivalent to $5.75. I plan on going back and get a full body massage. I am sure that would lead to some funny stories as well.
Footnote – they did not trim my toenails
Friday, March 23, 2007
Natalie and Shelly Bicycling in Shanghai
Thursday, March 22, 2007
Domestic Help on the way
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Natalie's Rough Week
Poor Natalie! Monday and Tuesday were a little rough for her physically! I better be careful how I put this or my mother will have her removed from my care due to child abuse! I have been trying to work out and decided this week that Monday/Wednesday/Friday at 10:30 would work best. Natalie can stay in the Children's play area in the clubhouse and play and watch TV. They give you a small watchband and then the ladies there will keep an eye on them until you return. There are Chinese girls and ladies working there, so English not so good. Monday when I got back at 11:30 to get Natalie, she was watching TV, which didn't surprise me at all. Then she came walking over to me and grabbed my leg and hugged it really hard, burying her head into my thigh. She said "I have something to tell you, but I will tell you outside". I thanked the lady who came over and got my watch thing, and then we stepped outside. Natalie told me as we walked to the bike that she had fallen down off of the rope climber and hurt her back! She said she had cried as she couldn't breathe. Wow. Poor thing. She said she never wanted for me to leave her alone again! YIKES!!! She laid down after lunch and I think she probably did bruise her back a little, though I couldn't see anything. I later got out of her that she had climbed up to the top of this thing and couldn't get down, so she jumped. Not sure it could have been more than 4 feet, but if you know Natalie, then you know that grace is NOT her middle name. Just like her mom. The rest of the day she also complained every time she had to ride in the child carrier on the bike. She kept yelling at me to NOT hit the bumps. Right. Finally, we just went back home and I gave up trying to get anything done. So that was Monday. On Tuesday, we rode our bike up to the JinQiao Green Sports & Leisure Center where there is the Carrefour, restaurants, etc. There is a big store there, B&Q, which is like a Home Depot. After walking through, Natalie and I headed to the Carrefour to do our daily grocery shopping. As we were walking, I tripped on a concrete step that was sort of stuck out in the middle of the street. Very common, I am sure there was no purpose for it. Unfortunately I was holding Natalie's hand and when I fell, instead of letting her go, I pulled her with me. So we both ended up sprawled on the road. Natalie skinned her hand up and cried. I just felt like a fool. The good thing is that Shanghai is just like New York or other big cities, everyone ignored us. We got up, brushed off, and the promise of chocolate quieted Natalie after a bit. THEN, we stopped later at a German Bakery to get some fresh baked bread (definitely one of the perks!) and as I picked her up and out of the seat on the bike, she fell when I went to put her down! That accident cost me two chocolate truffles from inside the bakery! Today, Wednesday, we are going to try another bike ride. Wonder if this one will have any exciting events!
Monday, March 19, 2007
Lookin' for Help Here in Shanghai
Almost 11 days have gone by since our last post! It has either been really busy or really boring. First things first, as you can see in the title, we (OK, really I) have decided that we have to hire some help to keep this house clean. Plus, we really need to find someone who can watch Natalie for an hour or two here and there. So late last week I started the search for an Ayi, which literally translated means "auntie" but is used to refer to domestic help here. This search has introduced the first amount of stress I have had since I got here. We had a cleaning service that came every two weeks, but never anything close to someone coming every day and doing all of our cleaning, laundry, etc. That loss of privacy is the most concerning aspect of this engagement. Many people here hire live-in Ayi's who live in the "Ayi-room" usually in the basement. THAT is definitely not in our future! There are generally Filipino and Chinese Ayi's available. those from the Philippines are typically looking for a live-in situation since it save them money. Chinese on the other hand will typically still live at their own home and have more flexible hours. Of course being the anal person I am, I wrote out a two page document on our expectations on how to clean. Tom was laughing at me, but I believe that some people feel they have trouble with the Chinese cleaning well, but I firmly believe that you just have to take the time to show them what our expectation is. In reality, our western view of how and what to clean is far different from the Chinese. Why would they have the same view of how to go about it when they don't have the same energy as a nation put into the cleaning of our homes, clothes, etc. I said in an earlier blog that I believed that our cleaning products are far superior to the Chinese brands. maybe that is because millions of women spent their youth watching "soap operas" and generally learning that CLEAN IS GOOD. Think about how many different brands of floor cleaners you have to chose from when you go to the grocery. Cleaning your home definitely falls higher in Maslow's Need Hierarchy as opposed to home and food! Anyway, I guess that is how I am justifying hiring help to meet one of my needs that is clearly a higher level than they normally prioritize their needs at. This level of philosophical self justification would make Nietzsche proud. Anyway, more to come on this topic!
Tom had a NCAA game pool this year, but the only participants were Tom, me, and Natalie! Natalie picked all of hers by color of the team. The crazy thing was that she was in first place until Purdue got beat in their 2nd game against Kansas! She picked Purdue to go all the way, which was better than Tom or I picked them. We are able to hear the games on the NCAA March Madness site. Not quite as nice as seeing the game on TV, but it works out OK. We also were able to hear the Women on Yahoo Sports. So being able to hear the games has softened the mileage between China and the U.S. though there is just nothing you can do about the 12 hour time difference. Tom was up this morning (Monday) at 3:45 a.m. listening to the Purdue game. Too bad on that one, at least Purdue gave them a good fight.
We had to buy a new vacuum this weekend. The one that was here when we moved in was not working correctly. So, we went to a Friendship department store in Hong Qiao to find a more 'western' option than was available at Carrefour. By 'western' that usually means Philips. Occasionally you see other home appliance brands such as T-Fal and KitchenAid but not that often and usually just one style. We ended up spending $350 on a vacuum! Geesh. And it doesn't even really have a rolling head on the front, just a brush that you have to push. I am not sure we should have spent as much, but oh well. It works! The store was running a special where they gave you back coupons depending on how much you spent. It took the sales girl, whose English was limited, 5 minutes to find somehow to explain how much the vacuum was really going to cost once we got our coupons back. She gave us a receipt for the vacuum which we took to the central cashier (one on each floor). We made our payment there and then she gave us a receipt to take to the coupon counter, which was one floor down. At this point, we did not have our vacuum in our possession. But, we figured there was some process we needed to go through to pick it up, so we were not too worried yet. I went down to the coupon table and they wrote down numbers into a ledger and counted out coupons worth 400 RMB (about $50). Then I had to sign my name next to the amount in the ledger. They gave me a receipt for the coupons which I took back to the cashier. She then gave us the receipt for the vacuum. But, we still didn't have the vacuum. We quickly asked her where to go, and she looked puzzled and pointed us back to the sales area where we picked out the vacuum. So, I took the receipt back and another girl took the receipt and placed it in a box. She pointed down the hall and went back to her station. I was starting to walk where she pointed when I finally saw the original sales girl coming down the aisle lugging a box. Our vacuum. She gave us a receipt and that was that. Except that now we had 400 RMB in coupons that needed to be used up. Natalie got a toy, Tom bought some power converters. We still have a 100 RMB Coupon, and we are not sure if it was only good that day or what. So I guess really the vacuum was only $300, that doesn't make me feel better. Besides, if I get my way, I won't be using it anyway! Weird....
Thursday, March 8, 2007
Tom's Redneck Pants Alterations
First Full Week: Cleaning, Sleeping and Cooking
Sunday, March 4, 2007
Made it to China!
So we are here now and the first three days have been spent getting rested and getting acclimated to the new country. The compound we live in is really nice. But it is funny that for the first couple of days, I felt invisible. The few people I did see here inside the compound didn't even make eye contact! Surprising as most of them were Americans. You would think that in an area where you are a minority, making contact would be a priority! But then yesterday a few people said "hi". (Natalie was disappointed to discover that were actually NOT invisible!). Natalie has already been swimming! It is heated and she loves it. The only problem is that she was under the impression that was HER clubhouse. She seriously thought that when told her she would HAVE a clubhouse, that it would just be for her! She has argued with us since she got her trying to convince us that we have to tell the other kids that they have to leave her pool area. For an hour on Friday she lectured me on how the pool was closed to swimming lessons and how I needed to tell the other kids that they can't use it until she tells them she can! Other than that, she is adjusting just fine.
We walked (yes, walked) to the supermarket, Carrefour, and picked up some things. Tom had just a few things in the fridge, it was pretty bare. Natalie is not enjoying all of the walking, just a sign of how little we do that in the U.S. It was quite an experience. You have to decide what to buy based on the pictures on the packages. I don't have any of my kitchen items yet (they are in the sea and air shipments) so we just bought simple things like noodles and dumplings. We didn't have any other experiences like Tom had before, though the lines were really slow. We only spent about 430RMB or $45. Pretty cheap for how much we bought. Today we are going out to IKEA and the SuperBrands Mall to pick up a few things for the house.
We will post some pictures on the website once we have a chance to get our home organized. That may take a while! But my goal is to do it next week.